
the setup…
College besties Marielle Holland, Naomi Ito, Craig Scheffler, Jordan Vargas and Jordan Tusic were on the brink of graduating from UC at Berkeley when Alec, the sixth person in their group died from an overdose. They’d been one unit since their first days at school and were now devastated. The idea of a “living” funeral was born and they made a pact that any of them could call for one at anytime. All would assemble to celebrate the person, reminding them of why their lives were meaningful. Now, it’s Jordan Vargas who’s called for the reunion, but this one will be far different from the others.
the heart of the story…
The story description compared this to a modern day version of The Big Chill and I found that to be dead on. Like most of us, these five friends went their separate ways after graduation even though they’d promised to stay connected, excepting the two Jordans who finally admitted their sexuality and married, one becoming Jordy. Each time these reunions were invoked because of the pact, the person of focus was facing a major life event…divorce, death in the family, etc…and needed the honesty of these friendships that stood up despite the separations over the years. I loved how unique these celebrations were, reflecting the spirit and nature of the one being “funeralized,” the honesty bared by everyone.
the narration…
The story is narrated by the author who is a great storyteller, delivering his intended tones and emphasis, which always makes a big difference. I would have preferred using multiple performers, though, to help distinguish the voices, specifically the Jordans who I kept confusing.
the bottom line…
As unconventional as a living funeral sounds, it makes a lot of sense when you consider the opportunity of intentionally celebrating a loved one while she or he is still alive. I wondered if these reunions would become routine and, believe me, that notion was dispelled after the first one. Every character, including the dead Alec, was so full designed I felt like I knew these people, despite the secrets that sometimes were revealed. I loved how the relationships stood the time test, a reflection of what they’d truly created for themselves. I was constantly in self reflection throughout the story, a notion I hadn’t considered when starting. It lives up to the hype with the most lovely ending.
Book Info
- Release Date: May 30, 2023
- Narrator: Steven Rowley
- Audio Length: 9 hours, 43 minutes
- Publisher: Penguin Audio
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I love The Big Chill comparison. I can see how this story would be totally relatable. And I think the living funeral is a great idea. I’d much rather do that than the traditional way. Excellent review!
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Thank you, Tessa💜 You’d love some of these celebrations!
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Jenna chooses some great reads and although I wasn’t compelled to read this one it does sound interesting. Wonderful review.
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Thanks, Jodie💜 I’ve yet to read one of her selections that I didn’t enjoy.
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It sounds wonderful! I’ve been curious about this one.
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It was a nice listening surprise, Diana💜 A gem inside.
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I’ve not heard of this Jo but it sounds really good. Wonderful review!
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Thank you, Nicki💜 It’s a great story.
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So this sounds fascinating and amazing. Is it life fiction? Not really a romance or mystery or thriller or other category?
Anne – Books of My Heart
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It’s what I call contemporary fiction.
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Fab review! You’ve definitely made me curious. xx
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Thanks, Yvo💜 This is the same author of Guncle. If you read the excerpt, you’ll get a good sense of the writing.
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This sounds fantastic, Jonetta. Especially that ending. It seems to get everything just right and nothing seems predictable too. Great review! 🙂
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Thanks, Lashaan💜 I think you’d enjoy this one.
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Great review! I’m so happy to read your thoughts — I’m planning to read this this summer, and now I’m looking forward to it even more.
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Yay and thank you, Lisa💜 Enjoy!
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This sounds wonderful and I’m so intrigued by the idea of a living funeral.
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It’s a highly engaging story, Suzanne.
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Very curious about this one and now I need to add it. Great review!
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Thanks, Marialyce💜 I think you might like this one.
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This sounds like a very unique premise, Jo. I’m glad to hear it was well written and one where the reader does a lot of self-reflection. Excellent review.
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Thank you, Carla💜 It will rank as one of the more unique stories I’ve read.
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